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Findout What Your Sleeping Position Reveals About You

Here is a simple test which can reveal a lot about who you are. It’s really straightforward. Examine the picture below and select the position which you think you sleep in most of the time.

  1. If you can’t fall asleep without sticking your knees out whilst lying on your side, then you’re a calm and reliable person. It’s not easy to offend you, and you’re not scared of the future. You smile even on the most miserable winter morning, and can adjust without problems to virtually any changes which occur in your life.
  2. If you mainly sleep in the fetal position, then you often feel the need to be protected, understood and sympathised with. By curling up in this way, you try to cut yourself off from the problems you face in the world around you. The perfect outlet for your talents and potential would be to paint pictures, learn to dance, or write a blog.
  3. If you sleep lying on your stomach with your arms and legs sticking out, then you are a leader. You are impulsive and take the initiative, and make sure there is order in both your personal and professional life. You most likely prefer to plan everything in advance and aren’t a fan of surprises. You’re ability to persevere and sense of responsibility help you to achieve great success.
  4. If you sleep lying on your back, then you are most likely a positive person who loves life, who is used to being at the centre of attention and loves good company. You work stubbornly and persistently, but in a rational way, preferring to always tell the truth. People who sleep in this position often have very strong personalities.
  5. If you sleep like a soldier at attention, lying on your back with your arms at your sides, then you’re probably a well-adjusted person, who knows what their goals are in life and single-mindedly strives to achieve them. You can be strict, pedantic and demanding, but you demand most from yourself above all.
  6. If you sleep like a heron, with one leg raised, then chances are you have an unpredictable personality which is often drawn to all kinds of adventures, whilst your mood can change so fast it can be confusing for those around you. Very often, you find it difficult to be decisive and make a choice. On the whole in work and in life in general, you have a preference for stability, peace and quiet, and thoroughness.

And if you sleep in different poses rather than one, then that’s a sign that you have a multifaceted personality which has hidden depths not even you yourself fully comprehend yet.

10 Movie Scenes No One Can Resist Pausing

Few films are so awesome that you want to watch your best scenes again and again. On the other hand, we’ve all come across truly shocking films that leave us no choice but to rewind the most unexpected shots in order to come to grips with what we just saw.

Here is a compilation of top movie moments that make our fingers itch for the “Pause/Rewind” button!

The Lion King

Does it say “SEX“ or ”SFX“? This question has long bugged attentive viewers. As the main characters lounge in the grass, one of them kicks up some dust into the night air. Carried away by the wind, it forms curious outlines. Parents were outraged at the appearance of the word “sex” in a children’s cartoon. However, the moviemakers assured them that it was the acronym ”SFX,“ a hidden signature left by the cartoon’s sound and visual effects team. Whose version is more plausible? Hit the ”Pause” button, and decide for yourself!

Fight Club

David Fincher seems to have made every effort to make the viewers question not only the main character’s sanity but their own as well. Just check out all these unexpected appearances Tyler Durden makes throughout the film.

Pulp Fiction

Quentin Tarantino movies practically beg to be viewed frame by frame, being so multi-layered and full of action. However, at number one with a bullet is this episode from Pulp Fiction — the “Gold Watch“ scene. Rumor has it that, if you’re quick enough with the ”Pause” button, you can see a shot of Bruce Willis naked. None of us had any luck — no matter how hard we tried. Doesn’t mean it isn’t there, though!

Basic Instinct

Naturally, you can’t see anything in that scene. But this didn’t prevent it from becoming one of the most famous episodes in movie history. And it made Sharon Stone an undisputed sex symbol of the decade!

Iron Man

Even the tiniest of details can’t hide from the attentive eyes of cinema aficionados. As Pepper walks up to Tony, on the desk, under his right arm, one can see a prototype of Captain America’s shield.

Inception

Stunning dream sequences in one of the most acclaimed Christopher Nolan movies are worth watching again and again. Especially this incredible moment!

Psycho

A touch of class from Alfred Hitchcock. When Norman Bates ends up in a psychiatric clinic, changes occur not only in his behavior but also in his physical appearance: for a brief moment, we see a silhouette of a skull superimposed over his face. But, to see it in detail, you need to be lightning-quick with your remote!

Star Wars: A New Hope

That awkward moment when one of the extras on the right misses the doorway. Nothing extraordinary, but still worth hitting the “Repeat” button!

Deadpool

Pausing the movie during one of the bar scenes reveals a number of familiar names scribbled on the Dead Poll board. They include Vladimir Putin, Ryan Reynolds, T.J. Miller, Miley Cyrus, Bill Cosby, and Charlie Sheen.

The Wolf of Wall Street

Again, you can’t see anything here. Pausing the scene confirms the fact that Margot Robbie is simply wearing skin-colored underwear. But, you’ve got to admit it — the scene does produce a certain “What the heck was that?!”-type effect!

13 Signs You’re Way More Intelligent Than You Think

Do you doubt your own intelligence? Here are 13 indications that you’re mistaken. The chances are you’ll recognize at least 2 of these things in yourself straightaway.

1. You took music lessons

Numerous studies show that learning to play a musical instrument helps childhood development. One of these studies claims that just one month of music lessons can help 4- to 6-year-olds significantly improve their test scores and makes studying easier for them. So did you play the violin when you were a kid? Maybe that’s the reason you’re so good at thinking things through today!

2. You’re the oldest sibling in the family

One interesting piece of research has suggested that the older siblings in a family have moderately higher but significant advantages when it comes to IQ compared to their younger brothers and sisters. This is the reason why the oldest tend to be slightly more successful than the youngest in a family.

3. You have a slim figure

In 2006, an unusual investigation was carried out. It revealed an interesting connection: the larger a person’s waistline, the lower their cognitive abilities. According to other pieces of research, 11-year-old children who receive poor test scores are more inclined to obesity by the age of 40. There is a high probability that their cleverer peers study better, strive to do better educationally, and will look after their health more.

4. You were breast-fed as a baby

Scientists from Britain and New Zealand studied around 3,000 children and found that those who were breast-fed as babies received almost 7 points more on IQ tests than those who weren’t. But this only applied to those who had a certain kind of gene (this gene is also present in those who weren’t breast-fed.) The exact mechanism determining the relationship between this gene and breast-feeding is still unknown.

5. You loved reading even as a child

Do you have memories of reading going back to your earliest days? The chances are you’re very smart, especially if your love for books started when you were still in diapers. During the course of one piece of research, 2,000 pairs of twins were studied, and it turned out that those infants who learned to read earlier scored higher in tests later in life. The study’s authors believe that reading from an early age improves a person’s verbal as well as non-verbal abilities.

6. You’re left-handed

There is some data to suggest that there’s a large number of left-handed people among criminals. Experts have yet to explain this phenomenon. On the other hand, the latest research indicates that left-handed people are inclined to divergent thinking — a way of creative thinking that is employed in order to solve problems and tasks. Left-handed people are often more inventive and know how to get out of difficult situations better. Is that not a sign of great intellect?

7. You often worry

More and more studies are proving that people who often worry about things might be more intelligent than those who don’t. It may be the case that this is a result of the fact that they’re always thinking about the possible consequences of their actions and therefore try to make sure everything turns out as best as possible.

8. You’re tall

Research carried out at Princeton University showed that tall children study better than their peers, and when they reach adulthood they end up earning more money. So straighten your back — you have something to be proud of!

9. You can be funny

It turns out that a sense of humor and high intelligence are connected. In one piece of research, around 400 students took an intelligence test, after which they had to think up amusing captions for scenes from cartoons. Can you guess whose captions turned out to be funnier?

10. You’re curious

A professor of business psychology at one London university came to the conclusion that curiosity is an important characteristic in intelligent people. Curious people possess a more refined form of thinking, and in the long-term they are interested in discovering new things and developing as people.

11. You strive for perfection

People who are smart are usually perfectionists. They’re never truly satisfied with the way things are. If they play a sport, they’ll spend extra time practicing to be the best player on the team. And if they are unhappy with their appearance, they’ll go the extra mile to look their best by buying a new wardrobe or stepping up their grooming habits. Their life is a constant work in progress.

12. You’re a real night owl

It sounds funny, but it turns out that people who love to stay up at night generally have a greater intellect than early birds. The ability to work and be creative at night, as is well known, was not given to us by nature. It’s for this reason that scientists reached the conclusion that intelligent people go to bed later because they’re striving to expand the limits of their abilities. If only we could survive on such little sleep!

13. Your writing is messy

Creative disorder is a concept that was established long ago, and there is even research that claimsthat it serves as a kind of “fuel” for those with a creative nature. Messy handwriting is also one of the signs of a creative person.

10 Movies Mistakes That Very Few People Noticed

Sometimes movies are shot after the gaps depending on the weather conditions, the actors’ schedules, and financing. In such cases, even the most professional movie directors can sometimes forget about very important details which end up shocking viewers.

 

The Green Mile

The unfair death of one of the biggest and the kindest Hollywood characters in history made millions of people cry when they watched this movie. But actually, this execution couldn’t have happened in real life: the movie is set in 1935, in Louisiana. But the electric chair was first used in 1941.

Braveheart

The clothes of the Scottish warrior William Wallace from Braveheart remind of the traditional national costume — the kilt. But the problem is that it appeared at around the beginning of the 18th century and the movie depicts events that took place at the end of the 13th century.

Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows

In the books by Joanne Rowling about a young wizard, Harry Potter, it is often said that he had green eyes — just like his mother. In the movie, the role of the boy is played by Daniel Radcliff, who has green eyes. And the movie characters said that Harry had his “mother’s eyes.” But something went wrong, and the actress who played the young Lily had brown eyes instead of blue or green ones.

The Lord of the Rings: The Return of the King

In the final part of the trilogy, there were some surprises. Frodo, who was poisoned by a huge spider Shelob, was saved by Sam. But at that moment, the Baggins hobbit was in stasis and he couldn’t open and close his eyes quickly. However, in the movie, it was possible. More than that, the web that didn’t touch the character’s chin in one shot, was all over his chin in the next.

Forrest Gump

Forrest’s friend Lieutenant Dan decided to invest money in some “fruit company.” As it turned out, the fruit was an apple, and the company was the legendary Apple. After that, in one of the episodes, Gump received a letter from Apple Computer Inc. The date on the letter said September 23, 1975. But the real foundation date is April 1, 1976.

Pirates of the Caribbean: At World’s End

This is another case when the movie creators were ahead of the time. In the third part of this pirate story, Captain Barbossa and Elizabeth Swan, along with the team, go to Singapore to find Captain Sao Feng there. The movie is set at the beginning of the 18th century. The problem is that the story of modern Singapore started only in the beginning of 1819.

Troy

Nothing unusual. Just a plane in BC times. Either the creators thought that the Greeks might need aerial support, or they figured that the viewers would be charmed by Brad Pitt and they won’t notice this small mistake.

Game of Thrones

The Unsullied are known to the viewers as the loyal warriors who are ready to sacrifice their lives for Daenerys, their Queen. None of them have any romantic relationships with women. And there is a reason for that. The love of the Grey Worm and Missandei is an exception. But, judging by this shot from the show, one of them is still married, or maybe, he just likes jewelry.

Django Unchained

In some episodes of the movies, Jamie Foxx, who played the role of Django, wears sunglasses which are still modern and fashionable today. But the problem is that the movie is set in 1858, and the first sunglasses were sold in the US in 1929. Well, maybe Django got these from some limited collection.

Captain America: Civil War

In this superhero movie, there is a scene where Spider-Man grabs Captain America’s shield and covers it with web all over. In the next scene, Spider-Man is holding the shield in his hands, and the trophy is absolutely clean. How did he manage to clean it so fast?

19 Hilarious Pics Showing the Lies We Share on Social Media

On Internet, we attempt to be better than we really are. We tend to stage our photos, whether it’s a shot of our nutritious meal, a super cute puppy or a sunny chill-out-day picture to make it look as though they’re “perfect,” as well as everything around us. But in reality, that puppy picture probably took 18 attempts, and that beautiful bowl full of oatmeal and fruit doesn’t likely represent our healthy lifestyle.

Womenlyhas collected 19 amusing pictures peeling away the mystery behind “the ideal life”.

19. Things we do for a good photo

18. “Trying to take a nice photo of our pets”

17. An attempt to be the perfect family

16. Keeping a healthy diet

15. Loving each other

14. Dream boy vs reality boy

13. Spending a lovely day at the beach

12. “The cuteness of our pets as it is”

11. The neatest person of the year

10. “Finally nailed swimming on the inflatable ring!”

9. Don’t trust the advertisement, it doesn’t look that attractive.

8. Being that loving couple

7. What hides behind this flawless skin?

6. The reality of cuddling with our partners

5. When we try to show our best side:

4. Traveling to the nicest places can be surprising.

3. Stunning makeup

2. A tasty-looking healthy breakfast

1. Beauty when no one is watching

Be honest: do you tell these kinds of lies on social media? If so, what was your worst lie? Let us know in the comments!

Psychologists Tells How to Recognize an Emotionally Unstable Person by Their Behavior

 

 

Lack of self-confidence is one of the most important things which influences our image, our level of satisfaction with our lives, and our emotional stability. But it’s safe to say that pretty much everyone sometimes feels shy. And you would probably be amazed by the number of people who are trying to fight their shyness.

We  decided to share 9 typical signs of emotionally unstable people. These signs are often based on shyness.

Desire to be popular

Many people want to be popular. But everything depends on how much someone wants it. If you have a real friend or a group of friends, you are not supposed to feel bad about someone being more popular than you. You should feel good.

But we live in the 21st century when the internet is very important. That’s why many people want to be popular online. And if you’re ready to do anything just to get more likes or views, you should try to understand what drives you, and maybe you should even see a therapist or specialist to help you determine the root cause of your desire to be popular.

Doubts about their appearance

You’ll be surprised but even the most attractive people often have doubts about their appearance. And this is normal. You can’t always be 100% sure that you look perfect all the time. We all have bad days and bad moods and there are many other factors that can influence the way you look.

Try to find the advantages in your appearance and highlight them. This will make you feel more confident.

Caring about someone else’s opinion

If you are constantly bothered by wondering what other people will think about what you do or what you say, then you can relax. The thing is, many people think about the same things. Everyone is scared of a negative reaction to their words and actions. People aren’t generally all that worried about your appearance and your behavior.

Try asking your colleagues what you wore 2 days ago. We are pretty sure that most of them won’t be able to answer. It’s OK to stop worrying about these things and keep living that way you want.

Reaction to refusal

Nobody likes to be refused. But there are often situations when we feel that someone refuses our ideas on purpose even when the person or people had no intention of offending us. Hearing a negative reaction to your ideas or proposals can really hurt your self-esteem, especially if you’re already struggling with building your confidence.

But think about the fact that other people are worried about this too. And sometimes you can be the person to refuse someone else’s ideas. Try to understand how other people feel in these situations and you’ll understand that you are not alone.

High expections

It’s great when a person expects a lot from themselves and achieves their goal. They feel strong and proud. This makes them keep on going and reach new goals.

But this doesn’t happen in the blink of an eye. Success is the result of a long and tiring process, so don’t hope for a quick result. Otherwise, you will fail and be disappointed.

Don’t expect yourself or other people to do the impossible and never quit something that you started.

Jealousy

Many people believe that others live much happier lives based on what they see online. But the truth is that the photos that are posted online aren’t enough to show others exactly what someone’s life is like. Feeling dissatisfied with life and with oneself is quite a common phenomenon and it’s something that even the “happiest” people sometimes struggle with. Exceptionally happy photos on Instagram are specifically chosen to show the best aspects of someone’s life.

If you think about it, you’ll notice that there are a lot of people around you who have the exact same problems. And someone probably thinks your life is perfect.

Devaluation

One more problem is that some people are sure that others can’t understand them. They think that nobody can feel the same things.

We all think that our own problems are more important than those of someone else. But it doesn’t mean that we should ignore the people who really want to support us.

Needing the opinions of others

If it takes you a very long time to make a decision, it means that you are very insecure. Probably, in such situations, you often ask for the opinion of the people who are important to you.

If someone asks for your opinion, try not to impose your point of view on them, but help them understand what they really want.

Trying to own a close person

If you think that close people are supposed to love you no matter what and should be ready to come and help you at any time you need them, then be careful because this road will get you nowhere. Every person has their own desires and they may be different from yours. And this is perfectly normal because they are people — they are not your servants.

So, the next time someone refuses to help and explains why they cannot help you, try doing something yourself instead of taking offense.

Confidence = emotional balance

This is for sure: the lack of self-confidence can be noticed in even the smallest things. And our life is nothing but a compilation of small things. So, maybe you should try and change something about yourself to find peace.

10 Tricks From a Ex FBI Agent to Become Double Attractive

Real beauty does not depend on external qualities, it comes from our behavior. In his book, The Like Switch: An Ex-FBI Agent’s Guide to Influencing, Attracting and Winning People OverDr. Jack Schafer, a former FBI agent, writes about the formula of friendship he derived and the laws of attractiveness that will surely help each person to establish relations and make surroundings trust him. His methods have been successfully used by American intelligence services for 20 years and have recently become public.

We chose the simplest but effective techniques that will surely help you at work and in your personal life. At the end of the article, the formula of friendship developed by this special agent is presented, it clearly explains how relationships between people are formed.

10. Start with bending your head to the side.

Did you notice that women bend their head to the side more often than men? The similar method men use in business when they keep straight to emphasize dominance. In informal communication, the inclination of the head to the side is a sign of trust; in the animal world, the jugular vein is shown only to those considered harmless and cute.

The signals that turn off: rolling your eyes with the head tilted back. Even if a person does this as a joke, very often such a signal is perceived as hostile.

9. Develop facial expressions, play with eyebrows.

People raise their eyebrows when meeting other people to inform others that they do not intend to show aggression. Our brain recognizes this signal from a distance of up to 2 m and perceives such a person as pleasant in communication. If you like a person you don’t know, give them a quick distant signal by uplifting your eyebrows.

The signals that turn off: long eye contact when playing with eyebrows, frowning brows, gloomy or evaluative look.

8. Learn to smile with your eyes, without a grin.

When the brain recognizes a sincere smile, it makes you smile back and starts producing endorphins that help feel a little more joy. Pleasant experience pushes people to continue communicating; we tend to visit the places where we feel good more often.

With a real smile, small wrinkles around the eyes appear and cheekbones and the corners of the mouth move upwards. It’s not that easy to fake this smile — you will have to think about something funny and pleasant.

The signals that turn off: a cold gaze and a tight smile, a smile with a grin.

7. Forget the phrase “You are welcome.”

Never say ’You are welcome” when responding to a person for the service rendered to them. Instead say, “I think you would have done the same thing if you were me.” Such statement evokes a sense of reciprocity: a person feels the desire to do something for you in return to thank you.

Do not hesitate to ask a person for a small favor such as give advice, help to choose something, such as share a book. We like to feel important in front of others, it increases our self-esteem. Admit it, it’s nice to be in the company of someone who admires you.

6. Shift to a whisper, emphasize without a reason.

To prevent awkward pauses in the middle of a conversation, use a light sympathetic statement related to the last phrase of the person with whom you’re speaking. This is a fairly simple way to continue the conversation and create a relaxed atmosphere.

Whispering is perceived as an intimate form of communication. Try to occasionally say certain phrases in a whisper, leaning slightly toward the other person, as if you are sharing a secret. A person will instinctively lean towards you to hear better. Minor violation of personal space and the feeling that you shared a secret will bring you together.

The signals that turn off: loud speech, backward distancing or leaning on the back of a chair.

5. Let people compliment themselves.

The best way to make a compliment is to encourage a person to praise himself. During a conversation, urge your opponent to talk about their achievements or merits, then show surprise, “Did you really do it yourself? How did you manage to do it?” Such questions will urge a person to compliment themselves.

You can also try to make a compliment from a third person. For example, say that your mutual friend noted an excellent sense of humor or praised their diligence.

The signals that turn off: a compliment is often regarded as flattery especially if it does not relate to the achievements or merits of a person but to their appearance or innate abilities. People love when something that was achieved by working hard is noticed in them.

4. Make mistakes in front of your opponent.

Make a deliberate mistake during the conversation so that the interlocutor sees it. Show hesitance and let him correct you. The opponent will feel more confident realizing that you are also a person and will treat his possible awkwardness with understanding. That’s where the law of similarity works: the more you have in common, the more often you communicate and become closer.

3. Pay attention to the pottery when you spend time together.

70% of important information is shared while eating. Their gestures at this moment reflect emotions, feelings, and sympathies. If the interlocutor puts the cup as if they were building a wall, this indicates a desire to increase the distance. The role of a cup can be replaced by a flower vase or an advertising stand. Do you remember that when you sit down at the table with friends, you immediately remove all unnecessary things to the side to create an open space for communication?

A shared plate is a kind of a friendship test — ask if you can try something from the plate of your companion. Not everyone will agree to share food but this insignificant arrogance helps to get closer. If we share food with a person, we consider them a friend.

2. Watch the lips of the interlocutor, learn to change the color of the eyes.

People touching their lips with their fingers or objects feel shy. This will happen if you ask an uncomfortable question or bring up a topic which the interlocutor will want to avoid. Watch these gestures to react and correct your own behavior in time.

Learn to give the correct signals with your pupils. Our brain likes the enlarged pupils of the interlocutor as it is a sign of sympathy and interest. Do you want to be liked by another person? Invite them to dinner somewhere with dim lighting or look at them with a defocused gaze where the pupils expand, the eyes appear darker, almost black, making your look especially attractive.

Opposite reaction: narrowed eyes, compressed lips, ostentatious yawn, wrinkled nose.

1. If the situation is not that smooth, recall movies.

This phenomenon is called the law of the rocky road. It happens that people like each other only after a series of obstacles and contradictions but these relations are often stronger than those that develop from the very beginning peacefully and without conflicts. This phenomenon has become a popular movie-cliche: at first, the characters are at enmity but they gradually recognize each other better and become best friends or lovers.

Other signals and tactics that will win sympathy and trust:

  • A slight occasional touch: touch the interlocutor inadvertently with your elbow, touch your back, pretend that you are brushing something off your shoulder.
  • Use emotional gestures: nod slightly when listening to a long monologue of your companion as if you agree with each word.
  • Be sincere: tell the opponent about your own weaknesses, cherished dreams, secret thoughts, or just cases from life. This will increase your attractiveness in the eyes of the interlocutor.
  • Demonstrate coldness or inaccessibility. But only sometimes. It will arouse curiosity and warm the interest of an opponent to your personality.
  • Show him/her that you are alike: did you know that an ideal team is a group of people sharing many common interests and having similar lives?

The formula of friendship developed by an FBI agent:

This formula reflects the main characteristics necessary for strong trust and friendship between two people. It will work if you need to make friends with a business partner, a new boss, or get closer to the person you are in love with.

  • Proximity is the psychological distance between people. The main condition for the appearance of proximity is a feeling of comfort and safety in communication. Sometimes, allow yourself to violate a person’s personal space which will enable him in deciding how and when you should be closer.
  • Frequency is the number of contacts and interactions that you make with another person per unit of time. The more time you spend together, the more you have in common and the more influence you have on the thoughts and actions of each other.
  • The duration is inversely proportional to the frequency. If you are often together, then the meetings gradually become shorter or less frequent. On the contrary, if you meet rarely, the duration and significance of each meeting increase significantly: you literally catch every word of the interlocutor and do not waste time on stupidity. Alternate duration but observe the frequency.
  • Intensity is the ability to satisfy the needs of another person through verbal or non-verbal behavior. Notice how important this indicator is. It reflects whether you are enjoying your time together or not. And that’s where common interests and desires play an important role.

8 Things You Can Judge About Someone From a Single Kiss

According to some studies, the average woman kisses about 15 men, has 2 long-term relationships, and experiences heartbreak at least twice before she meets “the one” and gets married. In fact, it’s the first kiss that offers a little insight into your future relationships as it can reveal a lot more about a partner and their feelings toward you than you could guess.

We  made a list of 8 things you can easily learn about your partner after sharing a first kiss.

8. Is there chemistry between you and your partner?

You can’t put chemistry into words. It’s something that you just feel when you experience it firsthand. When your lips touch your partner’s lips, do you wish the moment would last forever or do you want it to end as soon as possible? Even if your partner is not the best kisser in the world, if you feel a strong connection to them, it’s a great sign.

However, if you feel disappointed after making out and there aren’t any sparks between the two of you at all, then that probably isn’t going to change. Chemistry doesn’t come and go, it should be there from the very start.

7. Will your partner be good in bed?

It’s commonly thought that the first kiss can tell you a lot about your future relationships including issues involving sex. In fact, much of the technique used during a first kiss is applied later in the bedroom, so you can easily decide if sleeping with your partner would actually be worth it.

You should pay attention not only to your partner’s lips, but you should feel their hands, how they move, which parts of your body they prefer to caress, etc. Hands touching, bodies leaning, legs intertwining — all this creates an additional connection between the 2 of you. And if your partner engages their whole body when kissing, it’s more likely that they will do the same in bed.

6. Is your partner confident enough?

The way your partner approaches a first kiss can actually indicate their level of confidence. Do they fidget nervously with their keys before leaning toward you? Do they try to force the kiss on you? Does your boyfriend go in for the kiss with his head held high? Does your girlfriend answer by putting her arms around your neck?

A confident person knows what they’re doing and they don’t regret it. So if you feel confident when kissing your partner and know that they feel the same way, that’s probably the relationship you’re looking for.

Another sign of confidence is that your partner isn’t afraid to compliment you or address the kiss. If they’re willing to show their emotions after the first kiss, they won’t hide anything from you in the future.

5. Does your partner take care of themselves?

Although it may sound quite obvious, almost nobody pays attention to their partner’s hygiene during the first kiss. However, it actually may reveal a lot about their attitude towards you.

Does their breath taste like peppermint gum? Do they wear perfume? Have they taken a shower beforehand? If so, you’re lucky because your partner cares about your opinion.

In the opposite case, don’t be stuck in the illusion that it happened only once. Even if you hadn’t had any plans to kiss each other, your partner should be well acquainted with the rules of personal hygiene. So if you feel that they haven’t even brushed their teeth, they certainly won’t bother with using mouthwash for any future kisses.

4. Is your partner a good listener?

When you kiss, you can’t explain to your partner what you’re looking for with words. So here, your body language plays a really important role. The main trick is to see if your partner can follow your lead. For example, if you don’t like tongue thrusts and you show him or her that you don’t, they are supposed to stop insisting and adjust to your rhythm.

In each act of kissing, we send dozens of micro-signs, alerting the person how strongly to push or pull back, how much tongue to share, and so on. If your partner picks up on all of your clues, it may be a good sign! It means that he or she actually pays attention to your needs and is ready to make some little sacrifices for the sake of your relationship.

3. How serious will your relationship be?

Obviously, if a person kisses you, he or she confirms their attraction toward you. However, it’s not necessarily a sign of any serious intentions. Just because your partner is attracted to you doesn’t mean that they have clarified what kind of relationship they’re interested in having.

There are certain indicators that are worth thinking about after your first kiss. For example, was it just a first kiss or a first grope too? Did you feel like your partner was easing into the kiss or were they in a rush?

Don’t forget about your feelings either. Did that kiss leave you wanting more? Have you started dreaming of your future together? Or maybe you can’t imagine living with this person under one roof? You should answer all these questions to clarify your intentions as well.

2. Does your partner rush things?

The first kiss may also show you if your partner is too pushy or not. If you’ve noticed that your partner tries to kiss you on the lower part of your body, puts their tongue right into your ear, or is eager to slide a hand up your shirt, then they most likely want only to sleep with you.

When your partner doesn’t understand your body language and pushes you to do something that you’re not comfortable doing even after you’ve made it clear that you don’t want to, it’s a sign of a really bad start. Obviously, this person doesn’t know the importance of being patient and simply can’t enjoy what he or she has at the moment.

1. Is your partner appreciative?

The way your partner treats you right after your first kiss is important in defining their attitude toward you. Just look at their reaction.

Do they pull away from the kiss looking happy that you allowed them to touch your precious lips? Do they smile afterward? Are their eyes shiny and waiting for something more?

Positive answers to all these questions mean that your partner is really excited to be right there with you. So it’s likely that you’ve found the right person who will respect you and appreciate every moment you will spend together.